Balancing Act

When does one know when she is doing a right or wrong thing when the world has turned upside down. Priorities has changed from "what is" to "what ought". Who dictates which is right and wrong? Life indeed is complicated.

In the book I am currently reading it tells about love in its purest form. A person loved is never possessed as the person loving that person must not. Love is when you feel happy and free without the physical body. For one loves the soul and not the body. It is only with that depth that you can truly say that you are loving one person.

Can love this pure be the basis of deciding for what's right? If your love is less pure but is love anyway, does it make it wrong altogether? Then comes your mind, your ever-dictating mind, telling you the pros and cons. Does love and mind then have to meet to find the best decision? If somebody has the answer, send me a comment now.

I have had my adventures in life and have learned lessons more than my experience. For I have been talking with older people and they say that it saves time and pain when you get to learn lessons which they discovered when they were young. It saves you 1 year, 2 years, or more for you won't have to spend the time they spent, you can simply decide because you already know what happens when you do one or another thing.

But life's lessons never end. And at this dead-end, I look back to find answers but none seems fitting. I look now and certainly nothing comes out but confusion. Never mind about future because that's exactly why I am at a loosing end now, to decide on that future.